February 2012
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1st Polyamorous Union Certificate in the World!
adorablepolycouples:
On January 13th of 2012, the triad Anita Barbosa, Naldo Costa and Suh Lee (picture), brazilians, gave a step forward to get their poly relationship legally recognized.
“For the first time in history we got a document with a state seal/stamp (which means it’s suitable for legal purposes) declaring as legal a polyamorous relationship. It means that the State accept them as...
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January 2012
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How to...Make a Dental Dam out of a Condom!
fuckyeahsexualhealth:
How to make a dental dam using a condom
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VIVA LA VULVA!: How to tell if "derp" is ableist →
queerinnature:
quelola:
fuckthegenderpolice:
fromonesurvivortoanother:
When you look it up, do you get images making fun of people with downs, people in wheelchairs, and other disabled individuals?
Do lots of people with disabilities insist over and over again that it’s ableist?
If you answered yes to both, then guess what? It’s ableist!
End of discussion.
Thank you! A lot of people...
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Implosion of a poly family, or How 'going mono'...
adventuresinpoly:
For those who might be even slightly skeptical: I’ve provided all public court documents to several organizations, including the Sexual Freedom Legal Defense and Education Fund…and they are now fundraising on my behalf. Unfortunately, the donations coming in, while certainly appreciated, are limited, and aren’t reaching the threshold of what I need to hire an attorney. This is...
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December 2011
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"How do I deal with loving two people at once?"
everyoneisgay:
-Question submitted by Anonymous
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Dannielle Says:
You know, people say this is possible, but I don’t really believe it.
I mean, when Alec Baldwin loved Julianne Moore and Elizabeth Banks in 30 Rock, I sort of believed it, but I always knew deep down he wanted to be with Ansbury Jones(what was her name again?!) wayyyy more, you could just tell.
I think you can love two...
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One teachers approach to preventing gender...
togetherforjacksoncountykids:
“It’s Okay to be Neither,” By Melissa Bollow Tempel
Alie arrived at our 1st-grade classroom wearing a sweatshirt with a hood. I asked her to take off her hood, and she refused. I thought she was just being difficult and ignored it. After breakfast we got in line for art, and I noticed that she still had not removed her hood. When we arrived at the art room, I said:...
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“Women getting angry about violence against women is not violence. In fact, if...”
– Who gets a say? The sex work lobby & the silencing of feminist voices by Meghan Murphy
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To all those men who don't think the rape jokes...
oforganon:
(via) This post in particular is addressed to men, not because women don’t rape and women don’t make/laugh at rape jokes and not because men can’t be raped, but because, by nature of the existing gender disparity, men are in a unique position to be taken seriously when they raise objections to casual language and humor regarding rape. Men are also in a unique position to prove to...
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“[TW: rape, rape culture] Researchers gave a group of men and women quotes from...”
– Can you tell the difference between a men’s magazine and a rapist? | Jezebel
The full story includes quotes used in the study, and they are profoundly disturbing. We couldn’t read the whole list.
(via sparkamovement)
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November 2011
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How to get free vibrators:
nerdy-nicole:
feistyfeminist:
sanityscraps:
leslover:
leslover:
Go to http://www.edenfantasys.com/.
Mid-way down the right side of the page, sign up for their online newsletter.
Go to http://www.edenfantasys.com/zini, and click the ‘Add to Cart’ button in the upper right corner.
Go to http://www.edenfantasys.com/presents/free-gift/ and select whichever item you want, which would...
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Facebook Finally Removes Its Pro-Rape Pages →
fuckyeahfeminists:
YAY!
It only took two long months, over 186,000 signatures on a petition to Mark Zuckerberg, and finally a furious Twitter campaign to get Facebook to remove Pages that graphically celebrated and encouraged rape and sexual violence.
This time, anyway.
Warning: some readers might find the rest of this article and its links disturbing.
Unfortunately this was not the...
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October 2011
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(A chat from okcupid verbatim) -This is how...
nerdy-nicole:
*Random IM* Stranger: Oh gosh. Big boob alert. Sound the alarms! the alarms are going off. Me:Funny, my creepy pervy asshole alarm is going off too. Coincidence? Crazy! Stranger: Wow you seriously lack a sense of humor get over yourself you’re not so amazing that every slightly off color comment is a complete affront to your existence Me: No, but you don’t think I...
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Songs for: Dating the Wrong Guys. →
kyley-rules:
These songs are for girls and boys who always seem to date the wrong kind of guys. (my personal weakness- tall smart frustrated sexy bad boys)
Dating the Wrong Guys.
01- Best Coast - Our Deal 02- Rilo Kiley - Portions for Foxes 03- Thao and the Get Down Stay Down - Body 04- Heart - Magic Man 05- Oh Land - Son of a Gun 06- Rihanna - Take A Bow 07- Sheryl Crow - Leaving Las Vegas...
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:) !
iamobama-sonofmufasa:
When people assume polyamory is all about sex.
When people assume polyamorous relationships can’t have cheating.
When people assume polyamory can’t work.
When people assume that everyone who identifies as polyamorous is/has been in a poly relationship.
When people assume polyamorous relationship = open relationship.
When people assume monogamous relationship = normal...
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“…sometimes, I don’t give a fuck about educating people. Sometimes I’m just...”
– Sensitivity and a Hostile World (Please Understand, This is What Your Words Do To Me)
This. Thank you thank you thank you. I have been dealing with this guy on Facebook telling me my relationships must be weak because I’m poly. That if I love someone, I should want to spend ALL my time with...
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“Obviously, this idealised nerd girl does not actually exist, in the same way the...”
– I Am a Female Nerd. Apparently. — The Good Men Project (via notemily)
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“Some people find that monogamy suits them just fine, and that’s fantastic. But...”
– Angi | Modern Poly (via eyesliketwenty)
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HELLO, FRIEND: ARMPIT HAIR →
viabicycle:
catzattackz:
Hello to all of the ladies who I follow and who are following me who are loud and proud about their armpit hair. And also whoever else is reading this (men included) who feels the need to contribute (go for it!)
I recently (well like a month or two ago) made the decision to stop shaving my pits! However, I’ve found that I’m very afraid of people seeing them and making...
Anonymous asked: help! trying to educate a counselor about polyamory, he has zero experience with it and no prior knowledge. what are the best sources I could send him? (links and such) thank you!
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PLEASE REBLOG
“On November 8th, the voters of Mississippi will be considering a “Personhood Amendment” (Amendment #26) which would give a fertilized egg more rights than a live born woman, and would outlaw abortion and birth control. The threatening part about this amendment (and others like it proposed in all the other States) is that it could be a vehicle to be used in the Supreme...